Here's what ensued with my chat with Katie today:Cobleskillchick: i just read your message hun, what's going on? I'm here for ya if you want to talk about it
Auto response from blueyednbi: i really could use some cheering up...my heart feels like it's been shattered. leave me a message to show you care.
blueyednbi: a lot of stuff happened between me and amanda last night
Cobleskillchick: hmmm..do you wanna spill your guts now and just get it out?
Cobleskillchick: cause I'll just read
blueyednbi: she feels i'm smothering her, she needs her space, i am a selfish bitch, she wants to explore a relationship with nolan, when i mentioned my interest in her friend derek she freaked out, now we're on a break and i don't know if we'll get back together
blueyednbi: and i love her more than anything in this world
blueyednbi: and it doesn't seem to be enough
blueyednbi: and i have no reason to live anymore
Cobleskillchick: thats not true and you know it
Cobleskillchick: you have plenty to live for
blueyednbi: i can't live without her
Cobleskillchick: yes you can
Cobleskillchick: you did before you knew her
blueyednbi: i skipped class today because i couldn't force myself out of bed
Cobleskillchick: and you sure as hell can do it now
blueyednbi: i can't eat
blueyednbi: or do anything besides think of her and cry
Cobleskillchick: well sleeping in bed is one thing...thats alright (healing process)
Cobleskillchick: thats normal hun, and it'll pass just give yourself some time
blueyednbi: it feels like my heart's been ripped out of my chest literally
Cobleskillchick: I hear you
blueyednbi: we're on a break, but she's scared she won't come back to me
blueyednbi: and i'm terrified that that will happen
blueyednbi: i am in the worst pain i've ever known
blueyednbi: i just want to die
Cobleskillchick: but you have so many people that love and care about you, so they are the people you should want to live for...but I understand the heartbreak, crying is okay...
blueyednbi: but she is my life
blueyednbi: my world
blueyednbi: i want to be with her the rest of my life
blueyednbi: but i'm just causing pain
Cobleskillchick: she's not all thats in your world hun, what about mrs. fuller, bridgette, me, josh, rachel, and all the people back here that love ya? I know it hurts now...but remember we're here too
blueyednbi: i know
blueyednbi: but i need her
blueyednbi: i'm not complete without her
Cobleskillchick: yea...I bet, just give it a day or a couple of hours...eventually you'll find common ground
blueyednbi: she said she feels really tied down and scared, which is my fault
blueyednbi: now she's pulling away from me
blueyednbi: and i can't take it
Cobleskillchick: well...then try and understand her side too (I'm sure you've already thought about that...but who knows?)
blueyednbi: i do understand where she's coming from, it doens't mean i like it though
Cobleskillchick: lay in bed and cry it out...sometimes it's about the only thing that does help hun, and know that it's okay
blueyednbi: that's what i've been doing
blueyednbi: i can't take this pain
Cobleskillchick: your strong hun, more than you'd like to admitt, but I believe in you. Do you have anyone close by you can talk to?
blueyednbi: i've tried calling my friend mikey, but he went home for the night
blueyednbi: i paged lyn, but she hasn't returned it yet
Cobleskillchick: if I were there I'd let you cry on me in an instant
blueyednbi: i know
Cobleskillchick: I wish I were there to help!
Cobleskillchick: *sniff*
blueyednbi: i just want to fall to my knees and scream in pain
Cobleskillchick: have you tried Ben & Jerry's yet? they're a big help!
blueyednbi: no money
blueyednbi: and no desire to leave my room
Cobleskillchick: ahhh, well screaming sounds good to me
Cobleskillchick: go ahead...who's gonna mind?
Cobleskillchick: lol
blueyednbi: i've been blasting music to cover the sounds of me crying
Cobleskillchick: been there before...lol
Cobleskillchick: trouble sleeping too huh?
Cobleskillchick: hmmm
blueyednbi: if i had any alcohol around i'd drink til i pass out
blueyednbi: but i don't so there goes that idea
blueyednbi: i wrote some song lyrics last nigh
Cobleskillchick: cool
blueyednbi: i'll email them to you
blueyednbi: h/o
Cobleskillchick: great songs come out of bad situations
Cobleskillchick: thats a fact
Cobleskillchick: coolio send it to [email protected]
Cobleskillchick: i'm there right now
Cobleskillchick: i'm checking out your web page....I'm bad I hadn't yet :-(
blueyednbi: ok
blueyednbi: sign my guestbook please :-)
Cobleskillchick: did you send em>
Cobleskillchick: hellz yea
blueyednbi: still typing it
Cobleskillchick: I'll definatly sign
Cobleskillchick: cool
blueyednbi: sent it
Cobleskillchick: sweet, i'm on it....-going back to mail box- mwhahaha ;-)
blueyednbi: ok
Cobleskillchick: r u up for any phone calls? cause I have a calling card that might still be in service...lol you know u love me! hehe..just an offer..it's on the table, pick it up if it sounds tempting lol :-)
blueyednbi: ok
blueyednbi: you have my cell number?
Cobleskillchick: no...but I'm sure you do
Cobleskillchick: ;-)
Cobleskillchick: i'll read your songs and then sign off
blueyednbi: ok
Cobleskillchick: beware...I might sing cheesy songs
blueyednbi: oh dear
Cobleskillchick: :-) cause your awesome
Cobleskillchick: mwhahaha
blueyednbi: thanks
Cobleskillchick: no prob